Islam teaches good morals. Part of its moral values is that it commands kindness and respect to parents and teachers. Our parents gave birth to us and our teachers teach us 1 about many things. Our parents and teachers, therefore deserve our respect. The Almighty Allah says: “And you Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you should be kind to your parents…” Q.17:23
Abdullah bn Mas‘ud once asked Allah’s Messenger: (PBUH):
“Which deed is more beloved to Allah?” The Messenger of Allah replied:
“The observance of prayer at it proper time”. He then asked: “what is then next?” He answered: “kindness to the parents…” (Bukhari and Muslim.
On respect and kindness to teachers, the Prophet (Peace be on him) said: “Verily! Allah and His angels, even the ant in its hole and the fish in the sea, pray for the teacher who teaches the people good.” (Tirmidhi)
Why we should respect our parents and teachers
1. It is a commandment from Allah and His Prophet.
2. They brought us up well and taught us well.
3. They both contributed to our success in life.
4. It is the way we treat them that our own children will treat us in return.
Ways through which respect can be shown to them
1. By loving them.
2. By obeying their orders which do not go against Islam.
3. By assisting them in domestic matters.
4. By greeting them always.
5. By doing things that will make them happy.
6. By not shouting at them and through abstinence from raising our voice above theirs.
7. By not being rude or arrogant to them.